Get to Know Each Other in Surprising Ways

How do you build trust? A key element to nurturing relationships is to get to know one another which leads to greater trust. I have shared with hundreds of children and adults alike this simple, fun activity. I thought that this activity would be a timely one with many of you beginning a new school year. 

Most people know that I’m an educator, I’m married, I have two children, and I speak French fluently (although I was not born in France, despite rumors I have heard). However, when I’ve introduced this initiative with groups, many learn more about me. For example, twice I have helped to raise a Lanner falcon. (The photo was taken in our home.) Altogether, I’ve had eleven teeth extracted. I prefer chilled water with no ice. I have grown Yuzu citrus plants from seed. I love to read historical fiction, despite having struggled as a child with reading. I have not traveled to the continents of Africa nor Australia  . . . oh, and I should add Antartica, yet!

If you are part of a group which meets on a regular basis, you can repeat this activity . Or, you can just go around once as a way to get to know others within a new group.

Here’s how it works: Describe to the group that each person will share their response to the statement: “If you really knew me, you would know that… “ Responses are personal, however, not private…something of interest. Be ready for laughter and surprises!

And yes, this can be repeated over and over with the same group. I first learned of this activity from a group of dedicated camp counselors at the Mosaic Project. At the end of each day, they would share something with one another as a way to begin their debriefing session, reflecting on the day and the campers in their care. Even after many months of camp, they still had illuminating facts to exchange with one another.

When we get to know others better, we improve our relationships. We can appreciate varying experiences and perspectives. 

To learn more about other activities to help nurture compassionate relationships, send me an email: pathways2tlc@gmail.com

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