Get to Know Each Other in Surprising Ways
A key element to building relationships is getting to know one another. This is one of various activities which I have shared with hundreds of children and adults alike. Punctuating my bi-monthly blogs, I will be describing some of the elements of the workshops I lead. I thought that this activity would be a timely one with many of you beginning a new school year.
Most people know that I’m an educator, I’m married, I have two children, and I speak French fluently (although I was not born in France, despite rumors I have heard). However, when I’ve introduced this initiative with groups, many learn more about me, for example, twice I have helped to raise a Lanner falcon. (The photo was taken in our home.) Altogether, I’ve had eleven teeth extracted. I prefer chilled water with no ice. I am growing Yuzu citrus plants from seed. I love to read historical fiction, despite having struggled as a child with reading. I have not traveled to the continents of Africa nor Australia . . . oh, and I should add Antartica, yet!
If you are part of a group which meets on a regular basis, you can repeat this activity time and again. Or, you can just go around once as a way to get to know others within a new group. Here’s how it works: Describe to the group that each person will share their response to the statement: “If you really knew me, you would know that… “ Responses are personal, however, not private…something of interest. Allow for a pause for everyone to think of something and then ask who would like to begin. Be ready for laughter and surprises!
And yes, this can be repeated over and over with the same group. I first learned of this activity from a group of dedicated camp counselors who at the end of each day would share something with one another as a way to begin their debriefing session, reflecting on the day and the campers in their care. Even after many months of camp, they still had illuminating facts to exchange with one another.
When we get to know others better, it can improve our relationships. We can appreciate varying experiences and perspectives.
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