We All Belong to Each Other
A friend shared with me the concept of Ubuntu. It’s a practice worth spreading! Recently, I read the story of the group of young children who joined arms to run together towards a prize of candy which was meant for the fastest runner. They were practicing ubuntu naturally as part of their culture.
Archbishop Desmond Tutu’s explains his understanding of Ubuntu: “Africans have a thing called Ubuntu. We believe that a person is a person through other persons, that my humanity is caught up, bound up, inextricably, with yours. When I dehumanize you, I inexorably dehumanize myself. The solitary human being is a contradiction in terms. Therefore you seek to work for the common good because your humanity comes into its own in the community, in belonging.”*
Each community we are a part of, relies on our contributions, great or small. Simply our presence can make a difference. Consider your participation in the various communities which you are a part of… family, clubs, interest groups, work, boards, sports affiliations, your city, your country… You are a part of each of these and each is a part of you.
Besides practicing Ubuntu, how else can we build stronger communities? Communication is a key. Influenced by a new class I’m attending, I’ve been considering authentic communication. When am I impulsively speaking out of a reaction or my conditioned responses? How can I create a safe space for others to share authentically and I practice active listening?
I invite you to spread the idea of Ubuntu and find ways to practice it in your communities, with attention to the ways of communicating with one another.
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* photo & quote credit https://www.tusharvakil.com/2018/04/27/do-you-have-ubuntu/