Successful Conflict Resolution Tips
Do you avoid conflict or are you ready to put up a flight or somewhere in between?
Look back at a most recent conflict. Do you wish you had handled it differently? Many a time, I wish I had. What can make a difference? Our approach, our authentic expression, our adaptability, and our commitment to enhancing our relationships.
Our prior experiences with conflict shape our approach which may be beneficial or detrimental to the outcomes. Implement some simple steps to ensure a positive result.
* Go directly to the person(s) involved to solve the problem. Avoid going to others, complicating the problem.
* Be open to diverse perspectives
* Be conscientious of your unjust judgements
* Be committed to attentive listening
* Be trusting
* Be encouraged by the benefits of resolving conflicts
Focusing on the potential favorable consequences of finding solutions to disagreements will affect our interactions towards nurturing more compassionate relationships.
Benefits to conflict resolution:
provides a catalyst to improved relationships
expands personal growth and insight
broadens exposure to new ideas
honors and fulfills needs
encourages authenticity
Practicing active listening, paraphrasing, bias awareness, perspective taking, and communication skills, removed from the actual conflict, presents possibilities to implement enhanced skills when discord arises. Role playing through conflict skits (photo of ideas used in workshops with students) fosters our realization of the intricacies of relationships and provides opportunities to refine our interactions.
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